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How to Attract A Woman: 6 Ways To Stand Out From Other Guys

An attractive woman gets approached by men all the time.

The exception is women of beauty. Women who are exceptionally beautiful intimidate guys and they don’t approach. Hint, hint gentlemen, do you sense a tremendous amount of opportunity here if you are willing to take a chance? But I digress..

The fact is, as men we face a great deal of competition for attractive women.
If a woman gets rejected by a man, she does not have to wait long until some other guy enters the picture, but for men it’s not that easy. We must put ourselves “out there” and risk a painful rejection. An attractive woman will turn you down without battering an eyelid, I swear they are, for the most part quite oblivious to our PAIN when they reject us.

The silver lining among this apparent dark cloud is that, while hot women get approached quite often, most men DON’T HAVE THE FIRST CLUE ABOUT HOW TO ATTRACT A WOMAN and usually, she’ll just blow him off.

We, on the other hand DO KNOW WHAT TURNS WOMEN ON, well admittedly many of us are still learning, but with the knowledge available on this website and others, you have a head-start on the average man.

Still, one thing we must always do is to somehow set ourselves apart from all the other men who have approached her. So let’s look at 6 simple ways that you can stand out from the crowd..

1. BUY GOOD CLOTHES AND ALWAYS LOOK GOOD

Newsflash guys. Women notice fashion!

Most women can clothes shop all day. Most men hate shopping and fashion, which means one thing. Dressing well is a way to win some EASY POINTS.. and yes, she does keep a tally of how many points

Most men don’t have a clue how to dress, so just making an effort puts you ahead.

Now a few simple tips..

When buying clothes, the important thing is to dress in a way that subtly projects wealth. Ok, so you might not actually HAVE any wealth, but this is not the point. You are trying to subtly convey that you are a man of WORTH. It’s more about your attitude than who you actually are.

If you do not have any wealth, you should still subtly convey that you have done alright for yourself, or are likely to in future.

You don’t have to spend a fortune, but you should at least be aware of some fashion trends and have some fashion sense. Also don’t try and be over-impressive with your clothes or it will come across as approval seeking.

2. GET YOUR APARTMENT/CAR IN ORDER

Most guys don’t care about the conditions in which they live. The place could be a complete MESS and it would not bother a guy at all. His underwear could be hanging on the lamp, smelly old socks stuck to the wall and last week’s instant lasagna sitting on the coffee table growing MOLD does not phase him in the slightest.

But it will certainly phase HER.

How you live proclaims a lot about your status as a man and could make or break the deal..  So it’s time to clean up the joint!

Two things to keep in mind when planning and arranging the look and feel of your living arrangements are to: 1) make sure a woman would feel comfortable and welcome at your place but.. 2) It should look like a MAN lives there.

Your car is like a miniature version of your house, so you want to follow the same general rules. Keep it clean on the inside and out. Fix anything that is obviously broken, like windows, doors, latches. You don’t need a fancy car, but it should be fully functional and not a candidate for the scrap heap!

3. BE SOCIAL

While you may be quite content to stay in the house all day, playing video games, watching TV, or indulging in your latest geek obsession, the fact is, YOU DON’T MEET WOMEN AT HOME.

Woman tend to not view solitary activities favorably either. They are much more socially sensitive than guys tend to be, so are attracted to men who are socially engaged in their world.

If you are starting from “ground zero” cultivating a social life can be tough going.

I highly recommend you click on the link to the following website if you are having trouble improving your social skills or are just looking for ideas to kick-start your social life.

4. GET A JOB (AND GET GOOD AT IT)

Having a job is not only viewed positively by women and society in general. It will also help raise your stakes in the wealth scale. If you can find something you are passionate about and get good at it, you will naturally gain confidence as a direct result of your success.

Just be warned, despite what women think and what society views as “acceptable”, a job that you HATE will have an entirely counterproductive effect. A bad job will DRAIN your passion and energy from life.

Unfortunately, you can’t always know ahead of time if a job is going to work out, but you CAN actively seek out work that you think you’ll like.

5. BE A LEADER IN YOUR COMMUNITY

It’s hard to believe, but women still LOVE to be LED by a dominant man.

Becoming a leader in a local community group will achieve several things.

• It will get you used to the “leader” role
• It will force you to get socially engaged with people and improve your social skills.

Plus, if a woman ever witnesses you acting competently in your leader role, it should not harm her attraction either.

6. SURROUND YOURSELF WITH ATTRACTIVE FEMALE FRIENDS

Few women won’t admit it, but they LOVE a challenge.. What this means is they respond to a man who is not too available.. That is, when she thinks there’s an element of doubt that she can win him.

Surrounding yourself with attractive female friends will not only make you more comfortable around women, it makes you more attractive when OTHER WOMEN SEE YOU.

Women naturally look for clues from other women when weighing up the suitability of a mate. If other women have accepted you then you must have something going for you right?

I’m not saying you should form fake friendships. Instead, learn to appreciate women for the unique human beings they are (whether you sleep with them or not).

Trust me, they’ll appreciate it!

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